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Mindful speaking


Hello friend!
Have you ever been hurt by how badly someone spoke to you, that it made you think less of yourself? Being mindful about the way we speak is very important and we are going to look at interesting lessons from the Bible about being mindful with our words. 

Proverbs10:19

Too much talk leads to sin. Be sensible and keep your mouth shut.


Keeping quiet allows space for reflection and prevents unnecessary conflicts or mistakes. It’s a reminder that wisdom often lies in restraint.


Proverbs 13:3

Those who control their tongue will have a long life; opening your mouth can ruin everything. 


By managing our words carefully, we can avoid trouble and maintain peace. However, speaking impulsively or carelessly can cause damage, lead to misunderstandings, and create conflict.


Proverbs12:18

Some people make cutting remarks, but the words of the wise bring healing. 


Our words hold the power to either to harm or to heal, so we should use them with wisdom and care.


Ephesians 4:29

Don’t use foul or abusive language. Let everything you say be good and helpful, so that your words will be an encouragement to those who hear them. 


We should strive to speak in ways that are positive and uplifting. If our words are good and helpful, we can offer encouragement and support to those who hear them.


Proverbs 15:4

Gentle words are a tree of life; a deceitful tongue crushes the spirit. 


Honesty and kindness in our speech can bring life and encouragement, while dishonesty or harshness can hurt.


Colossians 4:6

Let your conversation be gracious and attractive so that you will have the right response for everyone. 


When our conversations are gracious, we create a positive atmosphere and make others feel loved and valued.


Proverbs 16:24

Kind words are like honey, sweet to the soul and healthy for the body. 


Speaking kindly to people has a way of lifting, encouraging, and bringing comfort to the listener.


Take away

Make an intentional effort to speak kindly to people and say positive words to yourself. 




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